Yeah, I know. My blog is getting a little too heavy with gyaan. So I thought I’ll talk about something more er… lighter – Women!
I often wonder. More today than ever before.
What is it about women that attracts us towards them?
Let’s face it, as much as we might pretend to run after that elusive “hawt chick,” the truth is that we don’t really give a damn about statistics (they aren’t always vital) or biology (yeah, anatomy is interesting but not always) as much as we care about the chemistry (How I wish Sushmita Sen was my chemistry teacher too! *Sigh*) or physics (Love: Matter can neither be created nor destroyed).
Men like women. Period. Men do not need a reason. They find the quietest girl cute and even the most talkative girl sweet. They call the roundest girl ‘teddy’ and the littlest girl ‘baby.’
Contrary to their strongest belief, breasts aren’t always the things men look for in a girl. In fact, men even find flat-chested women hawt. Look at the ‘top’ most anorexic models, men drool over them as much as they drool over Pamela Andersons’!
Men like women who give them tons of attitude and they even like women who are actually angels that dropped by to make the world a better place.
Men like women irrespective of what clothes they wear and even when they aren’t really wearing much.
We like them when they are exactly the opposite of us. Or even when they are just like us.
Men simply like, they do not really discriminate on the basis of colour, height or sense of humour… or sex as long as the gender is right (we’re talking about straight men!).
Okie, men don’t like all women (hello, but women don’t like most men!) but then, men surely like more women than the number of men women actually like.
I’m pretty convinced it’s not just lust. Because lust has to do with physical appearance. And men know that at kissing distance, any girl looks hawt. But then when you kiss, your eyes are closed anyway (unless you are doing something like what Shahid and Kareena did, to make headlines).
So what is it about women that attracts us? What is it that excites us when we are with them? That wants to make us hold their soft tender hands. That makes us want to talk to them, spend time with them or just be with them. What is it?
Well, it’s mysterious. And I think THAT… I mean THAT mystery, THAT enigma that makes a woman, teases us, fascinates us, enlightens us and is what makes it exciting for us. It’s the process of figuring them out, the journey of discovery of the woman, girl and the baby in them that brings us great joy and a little sorrow but then… what is joy when you don’t know the meaning of sorrow.
Ha! There! I’m back to my Vanilla Sky “the-sweet-is-never-as-sweet-without-the-sour” line. So my question now is: What is it about us men that women find so attractive? He he! 😀