I hate it when people I like and care for, lie to me.
I switch off. Totally. And completely.
And when they continue to lie, it totally PPPPISSES ME OFF!!!
*goes to the loo, takes a leak and comes back*
Well… *deep breath* Okay, here I go.
I’ve said this before. You can get away with murder with me, if you tell me the truth. The thing about truth is it is soooo damn consistent, everytime you have to say it. Because… it really happened.
But when you lie, you have to say another lie to cover it and another lie and another lie… It just goes on and on and on… and you have to remember all the lies you’ve made up and chances are that one day, you’ll have so much remembering to do that you are likely to fuck it all up and ultimately… the truth will one day come out and bring with it all that shit you’ve been using to bury it with.
Someone close lied to me about something and I found out. She said another lie to cover it up. And I found out that too and confronted her with evidence. Now she says another lie. And here I am. Hoping she’ll read this and get the message.
There’s something about dishonesty that pisses us off. It breaks trust, brings in distance and is capable of completely ruining perfectly healthy relationships.
I have never ever lied to you. Return that courtesy.
And don’t ever play this game with me again, all right?
*smiles*
Come, gimme a hug now! 🙂
Suds, thine middle name is ‘Harichandra’?
Btw, showed peter ur blog, to intro him to this ‘new fangled’ world! ummmm…he liked it a lot!
shelob.
🙂 no reply i see :). well, are we convinced yet or what? 🙂
rapunzel:
why wud u be sooo bothered if im convinced or not?? u dont even know me remember! 🙂
but you do seem to be more hyper bout this than me. anyway, we’ll settle it outside this blog, okay?
thanks! 🙂
shelob!
ellam chumma… acting ma… public image illai thats why this drama… people who really know me know wat a porikki, mullamaari, capemaari, poramboke, somaari, bemaani i can really be!
he he!
and Machaan Peterru, congrajulasons for being new kid on my Blogck! (kid na kutti aadu… in other words, little ‘bakra’) 😀
I have no clue what the issue here is, only playing devil’s advocate – may be she lied because the truth could hurt you?? Ofcourse, that’d only be a palatable argument if you are indeed a person who believes in the concept of protecting those you love by NOT telling them “the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth”. Ever thought about it from that perspective?
Hullo folks ! Just curious, but some of my backpacker friends who had visited India recently as tourists reported that the country was heavily overpopulated with countless starving people, hordes of beggars, extremely rude and greedy auto-rickshaw & taxi drivers, corrupt government officials, heaps of garbage piled at all road corners, people defecating on the streets, multitudes of homeless pavement dwellers etc, etc. Obviously you seem to be suffering from a heavy overdose of Film stars and Beauty paegent contestants and a dire shortage of conservancy & sanitary workers. A suggestion – perhaps the majority of the glitterati film stars & beauty queens could be converted to sanitary workers to help clean up the environment which would be a tad more useful for the country ?!
– Jelly Beans –
Enakku poi pudikkum ana solradhu nana irukkanum 😉
thambi!
gosh! intha public image thingie seems to be working — look at all the sympathy ur getting, re: first post and this. or are u still trying for the bac breezer! 🙂
LOL!
cheers!
ramya
*indulgent grin* {{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}public image, huh?
:-O what u gonna do with me in the corner where nobody can see us???:-O kill me???? 😦 *sniff* always knew that was what u ACTUALLY wanted 😐
or are u gonna……*ahem**ahem*. naaaahhhhhhhhhh…can’t be…u r too “nice” for that 😉
Nee enna venumnallu sollikoma…Namalukku intha prechanaiye venam. After a post like this, you are going to get thousand sympathies and who knows what you are going to reply with…On second thoughts, I am sure this is also another low day for you, so I will just keep quiet…LOL!
kavitha,
ena ma, kannu how are u?
ena orey advice mode ah?? it’s okay ma… u chillax… no silly feelings. 🙂
ramaiyya, u’re rite… i shd start asking people to express sympathy or whatever they want to express in cash or alcohol…
friends, butlis, matter, paasam, nesam… everything else u can get free in this world. but cash and alcohol… very rarely u get and nobody give…
so lets make a rule from now on…
let everyone show their love, hate, concern, thanksgiving all in denominations of cash or alcohol! 😀
so who wants to start?
he he!
Ms. Sphinx!
KILL u?
ha ha!
ill just say that u got at least two letters of that four letter word rite! 😉
and u thot i was “nice” huh?
well, next time we meet I think I shd take u to the corner where no one can see us and show u! 😀
for now… keep this. *smack*
anand,
thanks pa!
ha ha! No, it wasn’t a low day… it was a day i was plain pissed and letting out some steam!
like my friend often says, once you blog and get it out, you do get over with that feeling and all the pent up emotions!
nobody really blogs for sympathies illai…blog is just another outlet for emotions..
so cheers pa!
Eppodhan Aish comment/slideshow paathen. In rediff. ‘In India ppl dont smooch in public. Only in ‘lovers spots’.’ Suds, whats thine blog? Public ‘spot’?!
Shelob.
amma shelob!
A *smack* neednt be a smooch always u know!
and what did ya think I always take Ms. Sphinx to a corner where no one can see us for?
I really dunno wat u’re talking about 😉
err… *feels slighty dumb* fact check.. The whole truth is consistant all the time – when you have a big incident to relate, the tale will change slightly in the telling everytime, becuase you won’t list all the same details all the time.. A lie – a fabricated story – will be exactly the same every single time. There is a study about this someplace, could look it up and let you know…
But yeah, for small things, the Truth does not change, nor does it appear to change.