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You don’t complete me

September 19, 2017 · by sudhishkamath

Have seen people fall in love because they feel the need for someone to complete them.  

You don’t fall for someone because you are running out of time or options. You fall for someone when you feel you have all the options and the time in the world. You can be with anyone but you choose to be with this one person. 

Not because he/she is perfect but because he/she makes you happy in ways nobody else does. 

This clarity only comes from self awareness, independence and freedom of being single and not feeling incomplete.  
Broken people finding other people to fix them will fall apart once the purpose is fulfilled.

“You complete me” sounds cute in a movie but in real life, we need to complete ourselves first. And unless we are our complete selves, we cannot expect to find happiness through another person. 

I think I became a complete person only over the last year after I set myself free and lived out of a suitcase. 

When you go around the world, you realise the value of a home. 

Yes, the grass is always greener on the other side but being complete means not ever worrying about having to pick a side. 

Only a life without regrets will set you free.

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