Well, this is about a person who meant the world to me for six years. We were best friends. Probably more, but we won’t get into that.
I got over her a coupla years ago and even went out with a few people.
Today, she got married. I wasn’t even invited. It hit pretty hard when I passed the wedding hall and saw the decked up board that read Di weds A.
Maybe she wanted to start her life on a fresh note and didn’t want anything from her past, a friend reasoned it out for me. Maybe she didn’t want to hurt you. Probably true. It was kinda abrupt not being able even to wish her. And I may never see her again.
May she live happily everafter. May God bless the couple immensely. May she understand that I understand why she did what she did.
I wish her all the best. From the bottom of my heart. After all, what are best friends for!
MADRAS INK. 
This too shall pass!!
I know it hurts bad.. somehow everyones been there..hav’nt they.. and the recurring thought that may be you could have done it differently.. But then Hey.. if someone says they can’t be with you.. for some reason.. whatever they may be.. it means only one thing.. they don’t love you enough!! understand it.
and remember life is too precious and too short to be wasted on such ….
-Patrick
Mr. Aunt agony, Its high time you got over her. Any feeling of love is appreciable only if there is some reaction on the other side. Otherwise it borders on insanity…
serious, save yourself, don’t blog anymore about her.
Just give it a thought, r u obsessed with her.
rgds,
can’t really type my name but ur true fan.
Hi Suderman,
Do you have plans of writing a review abt the movie,”Kadhal”?
Had a chance to watch,”The Polar Express”.as you mentioned,it was very good.But found it to be a bit lengthy.
No one knows except her that why she has not invited you to her wedding. Its very hard to carry the feeling of LOVE in our Heart but who knows which is good for U or for her. Move On buddy…Move On.
Maybe if she had invited you to her wedding, how would you both have handled that situation? Perhaps, it might have been even worser for both of you to part ways seeing each other in the wedding. Sometimes (I personally feel most of the times), things happen the way they do, for one’s own good.
After writing this far, I read your “Who is Di? The reason!” blog and now I feel that she really used you as a comfort pillow. You are much better off, this is meant to be this way for your own good.
Hey!
It happens. And let me tell you. Seeing your love getting married to someone is a torture, and thank god you are saved from that.
It is definitely not easy to get over. But as time goes by, things will definitely get better.
Cheer up mate! Shall I courier you a full bottle of smirnoff raspberry twist?
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If it makes you feel any better, I live in a city where the girl to guy ratio is like… 20:1, ok I’m exaggerating, but that’s what it feels like. Chennai has many options. Hope you feel better.
hang on…hold it guys…
wat the fuck happened?
did anyone die yet??
then why these spate of condolence msgs???
u guys sure know how to push people into depression even if they arent.
I was a lil low yday. But the reason was not cuz I have feelings for her. I got over them two years ago. The reason I was upset was that I got over her two years ago and still couldn’t get to be the Best Friend on her Wedding Day…
im sure any of u wudve been upset if u missed ur best friend’s wedding! now tell me if u wud have liked it if u got the comments as above??
And hey Ms. Sphinx!
*hugs*
thanks! 😀
thanks again all of u…i know u said things out of concern but Im afraid they are largely irrelevant and about two years late!
And Schumi-Fan, im yet to see Kadhal… I last saw Tirupaachi…will post review today! 😀
Wish this was Bangalore. I’d bought you a beer! 🙂 Ravi
Suderman,
Nice post and nice reaction too, to all the “condolences”.
But did you notice someone offering you Smirnoff Raspberry Twist.. eeks.. How do ppl even drink it :p lol…
Jokes apart, just the attitude that a lot of ppl need, buddy. Good that you have it!
thus spake aNTi…
Hey. Smirnoff raspberry twist is really nice, when you have it on the rocks :-p
BTW shall i get bacardi limon 😉 ?
hey, i’m in pondy! breezer? tell now, or you no get! 🙂 is a the same person.
cheers
Hey Suds,
You are sad that people sympathise with you and your woes? We Be Indian, Behave Indian right? Not like ’em here…ask ‘u allriwt?’ and then even if you say ‘Im doin a bit poorly’ just shrug and walk away! Sigh, Do I miss home…and look at you….
Me.
Well, atleast from the post it didnt look like that, especially with you referring back to the other post.
But that’s fine, glad to know that it was just a low day.
*giggles*@everybody. *grins*@suderman. *waves goodbye and leaves* (like aishwarya rai in mohabbatein)
oh well can u blame me? i’m bored. and u arent even online to entertain me:-|plus no fone. *sigh* olrite, if thou dost not come herein minutes ten, then shall i know that thou cares not for me :p
and u know what? oh damn….!!!!!!!!!!!!i was abt to tell u but then the moment passed:-/
smirnoff raspberry is for the weak. plain old smirnoff is for the rest.
🙂
Ms Sphinx=Fiddi? :-S
Ravi:
I dont drink beer!
You in Bangalore now??
Prabhu I haven had smirnoff raspberry twist so… I’ll take it. 😀
Bacardi Limon?? Wow! Now, that I like!
Thanks buddy!!
Cheers!
anti,
thanks dude!
for being among the rare few to understand what the post was really about! he he!
Cheers!
ramaiyya!
there’s this breezer flavour called Jamaican something… supposed to be the best of the lot! bring that.. 😀
But knowing my luck, I bet u’re already back!
*chuckles at the all the alcohol coming his way… RAspberry Twist Smirnoff, Bacardi Limon and now Breezer Jamaican flavour* May more people I liked get married! he he!
Me? that u shelob??
well, i repeat, there WERE no WOES!
But yeah, I do appreciate the concern! 🙂
anand,
the post i referred too also said it was all over and gotten over a year ago.
yeah man, it was just a low day… cuz its not imagery that hits u everyday!
but no, “sympathies” i dont want… ever. even if im dying! 🙂
cheers!
awwwwwww… ms. sphinx…
i was busy with like three long meetings that ultimately got over at 3 a.m. and then I got home, came online for a bit and crashed.
i’ll make it up to u…
*takes her to a corner where no one can see them* 😉
delta..
dunno about raspberry smirnoff yet… but yeah good old smirnoff rocks!! smooooooth is the word!
so are u gonna bring some alcohol here too? 😀
elixir,
😀
now stop grinning and bring some alcohol…we’re having a party here! he he!
Ms. Sphinx aint Fiddi… she’s ur Diddi! 😛
And Fiddi is not Ms. Sphinx, she’s just plain Jane… actually she’s Meri Jaan! 😀
ahan…party time eh?? beer is it 😉 or vodka :P:P
suderman, when u grow up and become bigger and better and cleverer like me u’ll figure out how to have multiple profiles under the same name
and techno savvy too 🙂
Hye, with all the talk abt alcohol, dont you think you should dedicate your next post on booze 😉 ?
elixir
i said I dont drink beer! 🙂
rapunzel,
come, let me show u wat my door looks like…
*shows her*
and now why doncha see wat the other side looks like…
*slam*
Prabhu…
ha ha!
im not much of a drinker (actually though the last time I had I had six rounds of smirnoff! yeah i know that makes me sound like an alcoholic!) I just do it only when there’s reason to celebrate! and there’s very little!
but yeah, one of these days i wud! post something i mean!
Good to know that, and no thanx needed. Just make sure that u dont fall for that raspberry flavored concotion.. Seriously, will make you swear off anything bearing the name smirnoff!
But ya.. I once had a smirnoff in apple flavor. Think it was called “Smirnoff Apple Twist”.. Was not too bad, but raspberry goes to extremes!
Accckk! Too late, Suderman. Did go to Bangalore and am now back…got to see your query only now..Sorry! Didja want somethin’ from there?
HEY! I just realised that there are whole lot of guys/gals out there who faced similar situations! Man…. and I thought I was alone! 😉
Btw, excellent blog, man! I wandered in here through Vinod’s blog….
Holy shit!
Cmon man. Girls are just girls. and love is just a chemical (phenylethylamine) reaction in the brain. I hope u don’t (and din’t) “miss” her!
Nevermind